Job Description - The Greater Fool

I recently visited the Parinirvana Sthal of Buddha in a quiet little place called Kushinagar. With the flurry of temples as dedications of countries and communities which believe in the philosophy of Buddha, it felt natural to get an educated perspective on the relevance and importance of the place itself. I hired an official guide at the cost of Rs 500 and hoped for an enlightening experience. Few minutes in, it was evident that the guide was ‘just doing his job’ and had no particular affinity to the location or Buddha’s philosophy. (The latter was anyways a long shot) Nevertheless, an old Bengali gentleman I was travelling with, completely ignored the incompetent guide and requested a labourer cleaning the rocks of the 2000 yr old Stupa to give us his perspective on the ‘tourist spot’. What followed was one of the most beautiful narrations of the story of Buddha, the culmination of which was the very place that we were standing in. The passion of the man who stood before us had shadowed the odd job he was hired to do otherwise. Wonder if I were a fool to spend my 500 on the ‘professional guide’. Rightly so then, I paid the same amount to this man who sincerely guided us.

Today, when our nation’s youth largely deals with both, unemployment and dispassionate employment (to survive) at a mass scale, it is imperative that we rethink the understanding and pattern of our growth. In fact, it is the latter which is a greater concern for a society as dynamic and large as ours. Passion drives souls towards happiness and when that ceases to happen, we must be all fools to invest our own 500 in the mere mechanics of a need instead of the intrinsic value of that same need. After all, isn’t a common state of satisfaction the closest we can get to provide a better place to live in for our future generations.

While the economics of passion is yet to be established in this country at all levels, the means of communication that we have achieved through internet and easier travel can take us to that end. After all, the social structure of exchange of the intrinsic value brought forward by each one of us, is by nature the greatest blessing to humanity. And with well directed exploration of that intrinsic value in our people combined with the latest modes of communication, it might now be practically possible to establish a passion driven economy. 

One must now establish a clear system of ‘communication’ and ‘exchange of value’ which leads us to the ‘passionate’ guide automatically. We should also seek an environment which nurtures the growth of all individuals part of this system to lead an economically sustainable life as far as possible. Should we be able to establish such an identity enhancing platform driven by passion, it would be our greatest gift to our own future. It is with this belief and as some would say, self delusion, that I seek to explore the intrinsic value of our nation.

If you too are a greater fool who suffers from the same amount of self delusion, let’s get in touch. Needless to say, your passion is all that matters. :)

PS -  To begin with, I am looking for greater fools in the fields of App Designing, Language Translations, Journalism and Travelling to pursue my dream of creating a passion driven economy. Should you be any of these or even have another perspective to add on to the dream, feel free to connect. 

Are you happy?

The most fulfilling experiences of life are those filled with a sense of satisfaction in one’s ability to exist in its most natural form. A capability to live. To think. To exist. To create. Philosophies like those of Aristotle and Advaita Vedanta have reasoned this question of satisfaction and individual happiness to be a matter of utmost importance for a state to ponder upon tirelessly. This is because which acts make one ‘happy’ vary in time and space and more importantly drive the soul of the nation towards. Having said that, it is safe to argue that when considered in its entirety, ‘happiness’ is most palpable when the soul is nourished with passion.

And when each soul is free to nourish, the natural balance of the society itself is most palpable and one may safely term it a ‘Happy’ society.

India is now 140th in the global index of happiness of 153 countries. One may question much about the ranking statistically, but it is important to address the question of the state of happiness in our nation. 

With the decades and centuries of confused patterns of national growth feeding the passions of young men and women of the nation, happiness of mind and soul is evidently affected. And since passions are the prime mover of the working of a soul, directing the same is probably the one greatest thing that a group of people can do to help themselves lead a better life. Dispassion shadows unemployment as a growing nation’s concerns. 

We must find ways and means today to ensure a soul nourishing life for everyone which is sustainable and inclusive in the economy. And how perfectly that begins with introspecting our own reservations and prejudices to let our soul nourish is no coincidence. Who knows, what value one’s passion brings to the society. Happiness begins within. Let’s find it. 

#MeToo

#MeToo

The impartiality of this hashtag to explain itself to its reader and user is astute. Both, gentlemen and ladies of our realm seem to roughly know what it means. Although, what and how much one establishes post their understanding of the hashtag is limitless. The distress of women being expressed today with or without the #MeToo endorsement emanates from many kinds of experiences and the 'antipathy quotient' of each of those experiences may range from 'daily gang rape’ level in some demographics to subtle objectification based bias by men (and many women too) which is casually cultured throughout the population. In fact, the farrago of insecurities that women live with may never fit into a single shelter of a hashtag. 

"with the waves of feminism now internationally interwoven, one could fulfil a common desperate need of homo sapiens, which is simply to bring back some grace and good will back in the society"

Fortunately though, the ‘fairer sex’ is capable to throw such nurturing light at the ‘darker' sex which is itself capable to outshine this black spot of #MeToo now visible (but always existing). Women, subtly or unequivocally, directly or indirectly, constantly evolve men (and civilization) throughout their lives, as mothers, sisters, partners or even by their mere existence. Clearly then, today when gentlemen (and, obviously some ladies too) of this country and beyond have collectively created an unfortunate chaos of events and ideologies so flawed that hatred and self interest have become global currencies, it may just be time to bring back some attention to that light of reform. Now that the collective best behaviour of mankind is at best unreasonable and many times deplorable, women’s natural power to inspire a better world must take effect. Women have come together in the past for many social and legal reforms for themselves in the society but with the waves of feminism now internationally interwoven, one could fulfil a common desperate need of homo sapiens, which is simply to bring back some grace and good will back in the society. Co-existence is not a negotiation but an interlinked process of growth and a little grace and sensitivity might just help in achieving it sooner and for the better. A nation over-wrought with prejudices and hatred needs just that much to begin with.

"This power of perception of how a woman sees and nurtures the world is probably her greatest strength and also the most vulnerable element in the balance of society if lost."

With a little womanly wisdom (or girl power), this is do-able too. The axiom ‘the power lies within’ is more accurate when applied to people who can create a human than those who carry a few grams of seeds of life. Man’s behaviour is usually inspired by the lens of a woman’s perception. This power of perception of how a woman sees and nurtures the world is probably her greatest strength and also the most vulnerable element in the balance of society if lost. The vision of a nurturing and a more reasonable world for our future generations to grow emanates naturally from women and must obviously be reinforced by the strength that we men are anyways so proud of. If that vision is lost (the way it seems today), it is usually because the vulnerability of the same strength has been exploited. Sometimes by fooling it with an illusion of an already existing better world and sometimes by crushing it to an extent that it won’t affect the balance anymore. Our mere acknowledgement of this vulnerability can overcome it altogether. Women, although sometimes individually victimised deeply and unknowingly too, collectively and naturally are a power with a precise antidote to the toxicity of the world we live in today.

"Both, empathy and fury are virtues women are historically and mythologically known to pull off beautifully."

Humans of this world now need empathy to even begin to reason why and when it is not OK to destruct and destroy to establish one’s beliefs (or economic benefits and more). At the same time wrath and fury against the evil is a known necessity too which demands much deliberation and patience before action. Both, empathy and patient fury are virtues women are historically and mythologically known to pull off beautifully. I hope our generation lives to see the true power of reform that is ‘Woman' and may our future thank us to let that unleash in all its might.

Hitherto, I am just a part of a world which essentially lives on a timer for self destruct because of unreasonable ego and absolute lack of empathy and reason across the realm and I confess, #MeToo.

Your ‘Personal’ is certainly ‘Political’. Let’s talk.

Belated wishes of Women’s day. (Excuse the procrastination because I’m a man)